Knowledge of etiquette when sending funeral flowers can help anyone confidently order funeral flowers appropriate to any situation. Your relationship to the deceased is the first thing to consider when ordering funeral flowers.  Knowledge of traditional flower choices for your type of relationship can help you choose the right funeral arrangement.

Enduring Spirit Pothos Basket $74.95
Red and White Handled Basket $84.95
Faithful Friend Standing Spray $194.95
Basket Arrangement of Mixed White Flowers $134.95

Funeral Flowers Sent by Immediate Family Members

This includes but is not limited to: Spouses, children, siblings, and parents as well as anyone who fulfills similar roles.

While it is appropriate for immediate family to order any type of floral tribute they desire, some types of funeral flowers and some display locations are generally considered to be strictly for them.  Flowers placed directly on or inside the casket almost always come from immediate family members. 

Typically, the casket spray comes from the spouse, children, siblings, or parents of the deceased.    Wreaths or pillows laid on the end of the casket usually come from the children, grandchildren, nieces or nephews of the departed.  Pillows or floral swags to go in the lid of the casket are most often provided by the children, grandchildren, parents, or grandparents. Flowers held in the hands of the deceased also traditionally come from immediate family. 

Immediate family members often order standing sprays or easel arrangements, or other funeral flowers to be displayed close by the casket. 

The following casket spray and inside casket piece would be items purchased by the immediate family.

Life & Remembrance Casket Spray

Life & Remembrance Casket Spray Item No. S5264s Our Ivory Gardens Cremation Adornment elegantly shows how much you care. Handcrafted with carnations, sprays roses, stock and daisy pompons, this arrangement can be placed on a table with an urn or framed photograph in the open center, creating a loving tribute for any service. Approximate Size: 12"h x 51"w $369.95


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Forever in Our Hearts Casket Adornment

Forever in Our Hearts Casket Adornment Item No. S17-4472 The Forever in Our Hearts Casket Adornment is a beautiful accent piece that adds that extra touch of elegance to their final farewell service. Red roses and mini carnations are eye-catching and bright arranged amongst white hydrangea, larkspur, snapdragons and Queen Anne's Lace. Tied together with a white grosgrain ribbon, this gorgeous bouquet is a lovely way to say goodbye to your beloved. Approximate Size: 20"h x 10"w $79.95


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Wreaths, hearts, fireside baskets, vase arrangements, and table arrangements are popular choices.

 

Funeral Flowers Sent by Extended Family

This includes but is not limited to: nieces and nephews, cousins, great grandchildren, and close friends of the deceased.

The extended family has a wide variety of funeral flower options.  Funeral flower etiquette for extended family members is very simple; extended family members can send everything from traditional standing sprays to less formal floral arrangements suitable for family members to take home instead of to the cemetery.

 An example of a standing spray that can be sent by the extended family.

Ocean Breeze Spray

Ocean Breeze Spray Item No. T246-2A Express deep condolences and strong hopes for the future with an elegant tribute that conveys admiration, affection and respect. Lovely flowers such as white asiatic lilies and roses blend with blue delphinium and hydrangea, set amidst ferns. Approximate Size: 39" h x 21" w $184.95


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Extended family members should contact the funeral home to find out visitation and service times and have that information ready to supply to the florist or to add to the "Special Instructions" section if ordering online.

Heaven Sent Floor Basket

Heaven Sent Floor Basket Item No. S5276s Blessings and prayers sent from above are captured in this stunning lavender and white arrangement. Each gorgeous bloom in our Heaven Sent Floor Basket is designed to bring solace during difficult times. While the lilies may initially arrive in bud form, they beautifully transform as they open. Approximate Size: 26"h x 26"w $169.95


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Funeral Flowers Sent by Acquaintances Co-Workers and Business Associates

This includes but is not limited to: co-workers, employers, employees, and service providers.

Acquaintances and business associates may send funeral flowers of almost any type save those that go on or in the casket. Flowers sent by aquintances and business associates specifically includes basket arrangements, standing sprays, wreaths and plants.

A selection of basket arrangements.

Soft Serenity Floor Basket $139.95
Loving Lilies and Roses Bouquet $169.95
Love's Tapestry $134.95
Traditional Floor Basket $79.95

A selection of wreaths.

Richly Remembered $264.95
Golden Remembrance Wreath $289.95
Circle of Love Wreath $349.95
Graceful Wreath $264.95

 

Funeral Flowers Sent by Friends of Family Members

Friends of family members often choose funeral flowers which are meaningful or particularly enjoyed by the family member or members they are friends with. Types of funeral flowers can be sent by friends of family members inlcude basket arrangements, standing sprays, wreaths and plants.

 If your relationship is with a certain family member or friend of the deceased it is certainly within funeral flower etiquette to send the funeral arrangment directly to the family member or friend of the deceased. 

Pure Ivory Basket $104.95
Sentiments of Love Arrangement $169.95
Heartfelt Memories $94.95
Heavenly & Harmony $84.95

Funeral Flowers - Etiquette for Everyone

Have your information ready before placing your order of funeral flowers. This includes the full name of the deceased, the location or locations of the funeral services, the wording for the enclosure card, and a method of payment.  This helps the florist process your order faster and more efficiently and prevents delivery errors.

Order funeral flowers as soon as possible.  This allows you to have more flower choices and ensures your funeral arrangement’s arrival in time for the next visitation or service.  If you do not find out in time to order flowers in time for the first visitation, funeral flowers may still be sent to the second visitation (if there is one), the church or graveside service.  Failing that, sympathy flowers can be sent to the home of one or more of the deceased’s family members or friends.

If your relationship is with a certain family member or friend of the deceased it is certainly within funeral flower etiquette to send the funeral arrangment directly to the family member or friend of the deceased. 

Gracious Lavender Basket $134.95
Serene Lily Basket $104.95
Rose Remembrance $194.95
Heaven Sent Floor Basket $169.95

Sending Funeral Flowers to the Home or Office

Flowers sent directly to the home or office can be very personal and meaningful condolences.  The most important thing to keep in mind is to avoid arrangements clearly designed for display only in a funeral home.  It is best to avoid standing sprays, easel arrangements, stylized or one-sided fireside baskets, and anything designed in a disposable container.

While it’s also a good idea to avoid balloons and teddy bears on a stick, sympathy flowers sent to homes and offices should be celebrations of life. Plants are a wonderful choice as they celebrate life and also last longer than fresh cut funeral flowers.

The Peace Lily $94.95
Enduring Spirit Pothos Basket $74.95
Emerald Garden Basket $84.95
Peace & Serenity Dishgarden $79.95

Stick to arrangements you could easily see yourself giving the same person under happier circumstances and you are sure to make a great choice.